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Sunday, 16 March 2014

I Can Go Far For My Love!


Love & Marriage need couples to go far…

Especially as Love & Marriage come with "Side-Effects" just like a recent Bollywood movie advocated!

I can go far for my love.


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For love I can Forgive him or Say Sorry even when he is in the wrong...
This is a strategy that even a latest movie suggests!

"Love is an act of endless forgiveness, a tender look which becomes a habit."  -Peter Ustinov

For love I can Lose.
On a lifestyle magazine cover, I read the catchy title of an article – “To Succeed In Marriage Learn to Lose.”
I feel I win if I lose in love.
It is a win-win situation if & when my partner also upholds the same spirit & wants to lose, so that we both can win!
Doesn’t matter who loses as long as our team wins!

For love I can Win.
I put in extra effort & my best to win…

For love I can patiently Wait…
Like the Hindi Film song goes- “Hum Intezaar Karenge Tera Qayamat Tak, Khuda Kare Ke Qayamat Ho Aur Tu Aaye” (I will wait for you till the end, God willing you’ll come at the end.)

For love I can learn new things

For love I can provide conditions necessary for love to grow & thrive

For love I can put life in my days
"Don't count the days, make the days count." -Muhammad Ali

For love I can magnify on similarities
"When differences are exaggerated, the distance between us becomes greater. Magnify similarities to bring people closer together."

For love I can go to the Kitchen!
Prepare his favorite dishes or re-prepare the dishes if they don’t turn out right the first time!

For love I can go to the Local Market or Super Market
Do all the veggies and grocery shopping and carry those heavy bags and save his time!

For love I can take sick-leave from office though I am not sick!
When I first joined work after marriage, my hubby was away in the USA, while I was in Mumbai. He came to Mumbai after 1 month, 17 days & 5 hours and we both took sick-leaves!

For love I can embark on any adventure & sacrifice…
If we set out exploring together, I can gladly sacrifice anything I love or myself!

Like the lyrics of a Hindi film song from Bobby goes-
“Hum Tum Ek Jungle Mein Gujrein, Aur Sher Aa Jaye…
Sher Se Main Kahoon Tumko Chhod De, Mujhe Kha Jaye…”
(We both are passing through a jungle, and a lion comes…
I ask the lion to leave you, and eat me up…)

For love I can Switch off/hide his cellphone & laptop!
I plan to do this for our next holiday! 


For love I can encourage him to leave office on time so that we spend more time together!

"Time is the most valuable thing a man can spend." - Theophrastus

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I can keep in shape & be healthy!
Love needs that we be fit and in good health for our loved one.


I can follow my heart!
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I can go beyond death...

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I can go for another rebirth/reincarnation!

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Lastly, I can go all across the world!
Explore our route network.

I can climb the Eiffel Tower in Paris & experience the City of Love & Romance!
I can go to Ellis Island, New York and pose with him at the Statue of Liberty!
I can visit the London Eye & have eyes only for him!

Get closer for less.

Wanna go far & get close!
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74 comments:

  1. Nabanita17 March 2014 at 00:22

    For love you can write something so wonderful! I think I identify with all the 'For Love I can....' things you wrote here... Another great and realistic post... All the best Anita :)

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    1. Anita Sabat17 March 2014 at 00:52

      Thanks a lot, Naba for your wonderful words :)
      Best wishes to you too :)

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  2. Uma Anandane17 March 2014 at 00:31

    As usual unique and different take Anita. Loved reading your post!

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    1. Anita Sabat17 March 2014 at 00:54

      Thanks a lot Uma :) Delighted you liked it!

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  3. Dharmesh Kalwani17 March 2014 at 00:43

    And I'm sure for your love, you have written this to give him a sweet surprise.
    Its all about love.
    All the best :)

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    1. Anita Sabat17 March 2014 at 00:56

      Thanks Dharmesh for sharing the great image. Have to convince my workaholic hubby to spend more time with me!!! :)

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  4. Amrita Sabat17 March 2014 at 00:57

    Woooooowww.........this is fab! For love, U can also keep writing fantastic posts like this!! :D

    & yes...'I feel I win if I lose in love'...then U hav 2 b Baazigar!! :P

    Loved every word of the post Anita! All the best!

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    1. Anita Sabat17 March 2014 at 01:31

      Thanks Amrita for your kind words :)
      Yes, I am Baazigar :) May we all be Baazigar in love & win even after losing!

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  5. Unknown17 March 2014 at 06:49

    True love is really this, boundary less. I loved it where you wrote "for love I am ready to lose". All the best Anita. Best Wishes and Happy Holi. :)

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    1. Anita Sabat17 March 2014 at 08:39

      Yes, Namrata. True love has no borders. Losing in Love = Winning :)
      Thanks a lot for all your wishes :) Best wishes to you too!

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  6. Rachna17 March 2014 at 08:45

    Wow, the things you can do for love. Nicely penned, Anita and good luck!

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    1. Anita Sabat17 March 2014 at 08:51

      Thank you so much, Rachna :)
      I can do more... that's what love does- expands boundaries!
      Best wishes to you too :)

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  7. Alok Vats17 March 2014 at 09:10

    Nice Post Anita, as usual...

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  8. Bhavya Kaushik17 March 2014 at 09:16

    That "Love means forever" picture made me go "aw!" :) Very warn and passionate post, I must add. Nicely done Anita! :)

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    1. Anita Sabat17 March 2014 at 11:12

      And that's what you have written in your post, Bhavya - Love means forever! :)
      Thank you for your kind words & wishes :) Best wishes to you too!

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  9. Ankur Anand17 March 2014 at 09:45

    what a beautiful post :) All the best for contest :)

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    1. Anita Sabat17 March 2014 at 11:13

      Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder, Ankur! Thanks :)

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  10. Ananya17 March 2014 at 09:55

    All the very best :)
    Love;y post :)

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  11. Red Handed17 March 2014 at 09:55

    That was the best I read for this contest! I really want u to win this one.

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    1. Anita Sabat17 March 2014 at 11:15

      Thanks a lot, Red! Means a lot!
      Now it is for Team British Airways to make the tough choice from such fabulous entries :) May the best one win!

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  12. Sneh Asnani17 March 2014 at 10:26

    Poetic post... and nice pictures too :)

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    1. Anita Sabat17 March 2014 at 11:16

      Thanks for the appreciation, Sneh :) Delighted you liked it!

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  13. Seeta17 March 2014 at 11:46

    As always an out of the box post :) all the best Gal!

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    1. Anita Sabat17 March 2014 at 13:05

      Thanks Seeta :) Wishes needed :)
      For love, I can not only think out of the box, but also think like there's no box :)

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  14. Karan17 March 2014 at 11:50

    Creativity and intense thinking . Nice share.

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    1. Anita Sabat17 March 2014 at 13:13

      Thanks for visiting my Blog, Karan :) Lovely to hear from you :)

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  15. Beloo Mehra17 March 2014 at 11:54

    A sweet and loving post :)

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  16. Unknown17 March 2014 at 12:57

    Ahh Nice and beautiful post Anita.
    All the best.

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    1. Anita Sabat17 March 2014 at 13:15

      Thanks for the nice words & wishes, Krishna :)

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  17. The Mukhtiars17 March 2014 at 13:08

    Lovely Post, All the Best

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  18. Maniparna17 March 2014 at 13:11

    Oh..I can relate very well with this one Anita , lovely post....and including the 'Quiz' is really innovative..All the best :-)

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    1. Anita Sabat17 March 2014 at 13:18

      Thanks Mani! Yes, the things we do for love! :)
      Taking the Quiz and learning more is also a step for love! Best wishes to you too!

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  19. Rajeev Kumar Jha17 March 2014 at 13:11

    Nice to read you for the first time.
    Best wishes !

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    1. Anita Sabat17 March 2014 at 13:19

      Thank you so much for reading :) Do visit often :)

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  20. Unknown17 March 2014 at 13:27

    Lovely Post.. All the best :)

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    1. Anita Sabat17 March 2014 at 13:44

      Thanks a lot Aditya for your appreciation & wishes :)

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  21. Poonam Khanduja17 March 2014 at 13:30

    All This Love for your Rajaji, IndiB and British Airways...
    Good Going!
    All the best. :)

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    1. Anita Sabat17 March 2014 at 13:45

      Thanks Poonam :) You remember my hubby's name too from my previous post! great memory dear :)
      Best wishes to you too!

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  22. Saket17 March 2014 at 13:38

    An offbeat and refreshing one, different from the run of the mill travel tales.

    Some of the lines you wrote made me ponder!

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    1. Anita Sabat17 March 2014 at 13:46

      Thanks for the recognition, Saket! Being different for the sake of love!
      As long as the pondering does good for your love & marriage, I am thrilled! :)
      Best wishes to you!

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  23. jahid17 March 2014 at 16:46

    Truly Anita kind of post :) All the best for the contest !!

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    1. Anita Sabat17 March 2014 at 17:14

      Thanks for your cool comment Jahid! Feels nice to boast of a trademark kind of post :)
      Best wishes to you too :)

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  24. RATNA17 March 2014 at 18:46

    Beautiful post Anita! How beautifully you have explained that love can be expressed in innumerous ways! All the best !

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    1. Anita Sabat17 March 2014 at 20:53

      Thank you so much, Ratna for your beautiful words & wishes.
      Yes, love can be and must be expressed & celebrated! :)
      Really glad that you liked it so much. Best wishes to you too!

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  25. Bhavana Lalwani17 March 2014 at 19:05

    heheheh ... wat to say ... right choice of quotes n songs n examples that are making this post simply awesome... all the very best.. unique concept... simple things we all know but hardly bother to apply them in actual life, u expressed it very well.. another feather in yr cap is waiting :) :) (that is result of the contest )

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    1. Anita Sabat17 March 2014 at 20:56

      Thanks a lot, Bhavana for your extremely kind words :)
      Just shared sincerely & straight from my heart.
      Makes me feel happy. I know the results are never in our hands!
      I loved all your entries. Best wishes to you too :)

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  26. C Suresh17 March 2014 at 20:21

    For love you can be so creative :)

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    1. Anita Sabat17 March 2014 at 20:58

      Thanks Sureshji for your appreciation. Means a lot :)

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    2. RioZee18 March 2014 at 17:27

      Hehehe Suresh, hit the nail.

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    3. Anita Sabat19 March 2014 at 19:44

      Thanks Rio. It has to be a creative nail! :)

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  27. Aditya Jha17 March 2014 at 22:57

    Your detailed writing and the simplicity with which you put forward your thoughts always catches my attention as the reader. A great read this. Best of luck for the contest :)

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    1. Anita Sabat17 March 2014 at 23:34

      Thanks Aditya for your kind words and wishes! Delighted that you liked my post. I guess writing straight from the heart has its impact, just like your posts do :)
      Best wishes to you too!

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  28. Richa Singh18 March 2014 at 00:05

    Anita I enjoy your posts because they are so complete. And full of entertainment. Every line was savoured by me as a reader. P.S woman get a nice share button on your blog posts which have your twitter handle embedded easier to share around then. and in case you need help with this, ping me on twitter :-)

    Richa

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    1. Anita Sabat18 March 2014 at 16:22

      Thanks Richa for your extremely kind words. Touched :)
      Thanks for your suggestion too!
      Yes, I do need expert help! Tweeting to you now!

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  29. Arti18 March 2014 at 08:38

    Oh yes, love can make you get far and do all the things that you never thought of doing and who better to narrate all of them than you? You make it so much fun for the reader, all the very best to you Anita! :)

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    1. Anita Sabat18 March 2014 at 17:45

      Thanks Arti for your lovely words. Great that you liked it :)
      Best wishes to you too!

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  30. Indrani18 March 2014 at 10:58

    This post is full of love, warm and tender feelings. It was a pleasure to read. :)

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    1. Anita Sabat18 March 2014 at 17:46

      Really glad to know that, Indrani! Thanks for your constant support :)

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  31. Preethi Venugopala18 March 2014 at 13:08

    So much love Anita... Your husband is lucky to have such a loving wife..Loved the post...

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    1. Anita Sabat18 March 2014 at 17:47

      Thanks for the wonderful compliment, Preethi!
      I'll show it to my hubby & get his view- whether he feels lucky too! :)
      Loved your story! Best wishes to you :)

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  32. Soumya18 March 2014 at 13:53

    You my dear, are awesome!! Oh I've fallen in love with you after reading this post :P

    You will win this I'm sure!

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    1. Anita Sabat18 March 2014 at 17:50

      Thanks for your awesome words, Soumya!
      You fell in love with me now? Hum to tere aashiq hain sadiyon puraane..!!! :)

      I feel I have won with such wonderful comments :)

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  33. RioZee18 March 2014 at 17:30

    What to say, I am speechless now. Very very creative take, full of simplicity and inspiration. Kudos. Best wishes.

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    1. Anita Sabat18 March 2014 at 17:52

      I feel blessed Rio with such nice words :) Who says you are speechless?! :)
      Best wishes to you too!

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  34. Anonymous18 March 2014 at 18:29

    This post is diabetically cute.. pardon me if i am wrong.. but i think you're married and the case you are, your husband is one real lucky man because you seem all moony in love and i love such sappy love...

    you've woven the whole post so articulately that one can't help but fall in love with the shades of love you have loved to love :) if that made any sense at all..

    I would rate this as one of the cutest post I've read for these entries :)

    and my best picks of your post

    where you counted the time your husband was away.. that's something EPIC_ally romantic.. i pray it is true and not just "drama for the post" which i love too :P and EEEIIIFFEEL TOWER.. I am a sucker for all things FRANCE, but I LOVE Brit men.. lol

    Much lovies to you.

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    1. Anita Sabat19 March 2014 at 19:40

      Thank you so much for sharing your hearty & candid thoughts & wishes!
      Am all smiles :)
      Yes, you are right. I am married & boast of a decade long journey in this beautiful relationship called marriage.

      Every word is true & straight from the heart & real life!
      I believe- honesty is the foundation of a strong relationship- whether marriage or Blogging :)
      Loads of love to you! Stay blessed.

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  35. Nikhil Chaudhari6 April 2014 at 19:08

    Perfect article....Even though i may not be married to qualify to talk abt love lasting across time...But being a romantic at heart...your words abt Amour as the french say have touched my heart...thank you for sharing the words!!
    You have said my mind sis!!

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    1. Anita Sabat6 April 2014 at 21:01

      Thanks Nikhil for your nice kind words :) Really pleased that you liked my post :)
      Best wishes to you!

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  36. Aayesha S Hakim22 June 2014 at 13:25

    Lovely post, Anita :)
    All for the love of love! ;)

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Your words mean a lot to me.