I was in Class V
when I first met her. Tamanna was the new girl in our school. She had just
shifted from Botswana. Tamanna had joined my School in Class V, though in
another Section. However, we travelled together by the same School-bus as even
she stayed in the same part of the city as I.
I really cannot
recollect the exact time when we met for the first time or how we became
friends. Perhaps, our love for Books and Comics, drew us together. Tamanna had
a huge collection of Archie Comics while I had (I still have!) an enviable
collection of Indian Comics- Volumes of Amar Chitra Katha & Tinkle. We
happily shared and exchanged books. In fact, I discovered Archie & his
friends thanks to Tamanna.
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Later, we realized that
we shared many interests- Cartoons, Music- all kinds, Food- everything, Hindi Movies
…we even had the same favorite movie-stars- Madhuri Dixit & Aamir Khan! We had
collections of their posters! Also, we were philatelists & numismatists i.e.
we collected stamps & coins!
I was in Class VI when
my first story was published in Tinkle. Tamanna bought a copy of the same
magazine for herself!
We used to merrily
chat in the bus, always sitting next to one another in the second row and
singing songs and cracking silly jokes. We NEVER discussed guys as we had far more
important stuff to chat about!
In Class IX, all the
students, who wished to take up ‘Sanskrit’ as their subject for Class X Board
Exam, were put in one Section. That’s how Tamanna & I were finally in the
same classroom. Now we got to spend more time together. Our conversations
spilled over even to the after-school hours. Once, my Mom asked, “What do you
girls have so much to discuss that so many hours at school and bus aren’t even
enough?!” You won’t believe, one day, when I was at her home and I was dialing my
home, I was not getting the connection. When Tamanna stepped in to help, she
pointed out the reason. I was actually dialing her telephone number instead of
mine as I was so used to dialing her number all the time!!!
Just after Class X
Board Exams, Mom enrolled me for the Bakery Summer-Course at the Institute of
Hotel Management. As Tamanna was also interested, she too joined. We had to
break a lot of eggs to bake cakes! When Tamanna broke the eggs, the egg-shells
would fall into the container and we would have to fish them out! However, I
was good at breaking the eggs in such a fashion that there were two equal
halves of the shells! Even now when I break eggs, I remember Tamanna! Once
Tamanna used 11 & ½ tspns of Baking Powder to bake a Cake, instead of 1
& ½ tspns that the recipe demanded. The result is anyone’s guess!!!
After we watched the
Blockbuster, Hum Aapke Hain Kaun (HAHK), I shared my views with her. A month
later, she excitedly called me up saying the latest Filmfare had my review of
HAHK as the Best-Review! It seems while reading the same, she remembered that
it was I who had shared those points with her! When she checked the writer’s
name, she was overjoyed to see that it was indeed her friend!
We joined the same
College. I used to travel by my Bajaj Sunny while she took her Kinetic Honda. One
day, another friend, Snigdha asked for a lift back home. Though Snigdha’s home
was away from our travel-route, Tamanna agreed to drop her. I never encouraged
pillion-riding, but Tamanna was capable enough to do so. I followed Tamanna and
she dropped Snigdha. I was a slow and safe driver. On our way back, I was
surprised to not find Tamanna or her vehicle anywhere on the road. I always
knew Tamanna loved speed, but where had she disappeared? There were three roads
at that intersection in front of the Governor’s House. Had she taken the left,
the straight or the right turn? Then, a shocking sight greeted me. She had met
with an accident and was lying on the road. Three people were already there
helping her. I’ll never forgive myself for the silliest thing I have ever done
in my life. Instead of staying by her side, I went to Snigdha’s home that was near
to get help. Her father wasn’t at home and Snigdha didn’t answer my calls.
Then, I returned to the site only to find that Tamanna was no longer there. The
passers-by informed that her mother had come and taken her away. I felt very
terrible about my stupidity and apologized to Tamanna and Aunty later. Aunty agreed
that I should have been on the spot rather than try to get help from elsewhere.
I still consider this as one of the silliest things I have done in my life. Even nice people can commit
not-so-nice crimes like this, yet be forgiven and still loved by nice friends! Love
is when we are loved in spite of our flaws. Friendship accepts us the way we are.
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In College, Tamanna
& I made a great Team! We even secured the highest marks in a Music-Quiz
and won the Inter-College Antakshari Contest too. We won one Salwar-Suit as a
prize for that! I can never figure out what the organizers had in mind by
gifting us just one Salwar-Suit!!! Tamanna wanted that we gift it to my sister!
But, I would have nothing of it. I actually went to that shop and asked them to
replace it. In exchange, I picked 2 T-shirts- 1 Red & 1 Yellow- 1 for her
& 1 for me! Then, I asked her to choose which one she wanted. She, in turn, asked me the same! As usual, we indulged in- 'Pehle Aap! (First You!)'
Many more mad things we have
done,
We have shared some food &
fun!
We have been great friends rare!
Even now the special love is
there!
Just like Dove Cream Beauty
Bathing Bar replenishes our skin’s lost moisture each time we use it, memories
of my friend springs to life precious special moments of togetherness.
Friendship’s
secrets are like Beauty’s
Dirty Little Secrets – Better to clear the air & expose the truth.
Friendship’s
tips are like Easy Tips
For Radiant Skin – Better spread the radiance!
Friendship’s
tests are like the Dove Face Test where we Feel the
difference with Dove! – Better discover the beautiful difference & the
love!
Friendship’s
care is like Healthy
Skin care regime – Better care based on the ‘type’ or requirement.
Beautifully written, Anita. All the best for the contest.
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Thanks Clifton for stopping by & reading :)
DeleteWow wonderful! Friendship makes even simple moments worth recalling, doesn't it?
ReplyDeleteGreat post! All the best for the contest :)
Surely, Nabanita :) Great that Dove & IB gave us a chance to do precisely this :)
DeleteThanks for your appreciation & wish. Best wishes to you too :)
Very cute post Anita..The pics made me Awwww! ATB dear :)
ReplyDeleteThanks Bushra :) Great you liked it! Best wishes to you too, dear :)
DeleteA cute little stoty, told so convincingly that it was difficult to judge whether it was a story or real. My appreciations.
ReplyDeleteThanks Saket for your appreciation! Touched by your comment. It's a 100% real story :)
DeleteAw! Such a beautiful post! And so nicely put. The dove reference at the end is great!
ReplyDeleteYou might end up winning :D
Thanks Bhavya! Delighted you liked it :) Hope the judges share your view :D
DeleteSo touching post Anita.
ReplyDeleteTruely... Best friends that we have are those, we made during childhood :)
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Thanks Priyanka :) Blessed to have friends.
DeleteBest wishes to you for the contest :)
Nostalgic moments of good old days Anita. You both make a great pair!
ReplyDeleteAll the best and wish you a Happy New Year Anita :)
Thank you so much, Uma :) Lovely wish!
DeleteBest wishes to you too :)
You never discussed guys :O
ReplyDeleteBut we used to discuss are nasty boys who were are classmates :|
Love the bond you share with Tamanna :)
Lovely post dear ..ATB for contest :)
Sounds strange, but is true :) Thanks Nisa, for the appreciation :)
DeleteBest wishes to you too, dear :)
those were the days... sigh..! beautiful post Anita.. :)
ReplyDeleteall the best.. :)
Thanks Meera :) Delighted you liked it!
DeleteBest wishes to you too, dear!
Nice post Anita..enjoyed it a lot with big smile 11 and 1/2 tsp of baking powder !!! haha..
ReplyDeleteBest of luck ..:-)
Thanks Maniparna :) Yes, the extra baking powder takes the cake, sorry, spoilt the cake!!! :)
DeleteDelighted that you smiled & enjoyed! :) Keep smiling! All the best to you too :)
The best is that I actually want to know more :D
ReplyDeleteThat's how you draw readers close and create a trance...this entry, my friend, is refreshingly different. Keep it up!
Regards
Sammya
Thanks Sammya :) Feel blessed to receive such support, inspiration & motivation! Cheers!
DeleteHow neatly you have described this beautiful friendship bond that you share between you and your childhood friend, Tamanna. Well written, Anita. All the best for the contest :)
ReplyDeleteThanks Bharati for your wish & for sharing such a sweet message :) Delighted you liked it! :)
DeleteLovely sweet read.
ReplyDeleteAll the best Anita!
Thanks for your sweet message & wish, Indrani :)
DeleteVery Nice Post!!! All the best for the contest
ReplyDeleteThanks a lot Aditya :) Best wishes to you too!
DeleteReally enjoyed reading anita... Tamanna seems like a really special person :)
ReplyDeleteThanks a lot Canary for stopping by & reading :) Great that you enjoyed it.
DeleteYes, Tamanna is a really special person :)
nice post! Merry Christmas, I have nominated you for the versatile blogger award, check http://aayesha1611.blogspot.in/2013/12/versatile-blogger-award-yay.html
ReplyDeleteThanks a lot Aayesha :) Merry Christmas! First, Congrats to you for the Award!
DeleteHonored to receive the Award from you! Yaay! Need some time to claim it though:)
Beautifully post Anita, and the beautiful pointers at the end - they are linking icing on the cake. :)
ReplyDeleteThanks a lot Ragini :) Delighted it appealed to you :)
DeleteYou know this contest is giving room for some very beautiful posts. Yours was heartwarming :)
ReplyDeleteI am so glad! After all, variety is the spice of life :) Seriously, I loved this contest as it gave us a scope to express our memories & remember our friends :)
DeleteThanks for the appreciation :)
Who wouldn't want a friend like her? Well books was the best start. Beautiful recollection of 90s, Anita. :)
ReplyDeleteThanks a lot, Saru :) Books are truly everyone's best friends that make us earn our best-friends too! :) Glad you liked!
DeleteVery nice post! Rememberin our best friend n times shared has been exciting! Ur post is filled with happy n not-so-happy times....do keep writing more! :)
ReplyDeleteThanks Amrita! Means a lot :)
DeleteYes, you have the right observation- my Post has both Happy + Sad times - Ups & Downs...
Some Smiles & Frowns - Just like friendship & life :)
Dearest Anita,
ReplyDeletethis is one of the sweetest gifts I have and will ever receive. It was so nice reading the blog and all the fun memories we have shared together. I think of you often too..about how sincere, talented and genuine you are.
A few additional memories from my end..celebrating one of rinky's birthday and all the games we organized, a party that aunty uncle threw at swosti hotel for your sister (her book of poems) and how I felt we both were really close, so many hours and hours spent at your place listening to the latest tapes and looking through the latest magazines..and remember that target competition?..where we had to hunt for so many clues..I vaguely remember the questions but I do remember how important it was to us at one point..and all the competition you used to enter and would inspire me to enter and last but not the least how proud I was to see you on the cover of CSR.
I really hope you are living the life you always imagined you would. I wish that many of your professional and personal dreams get fulfilled and I am there to clap for you.
love always,
Tamanna
Dear Tamanna,
DeleteIt's wonderful to hear from you.
I have tears in my eyes reading this...
Such lovely memories.Time was short & I do have so much more to share.
Our relation cannot b confined to just few words/lines:)
Did U see the nice things everyone has written for you?! ;) I love all the fond memories you have shared here!
Thanks for all the wishes! I do hope you have attained your dreams too!
New Year greetings to you & your family! Bestest wishes for you as hamesha!
Lots of love,
Anita
Glad that you and Tamanna are still in touch (Read her sweet comment) :) It was a heart warming post. All the best for the contest.
ReplyDeleteP.S. Your comment gave me the good news! I was blissfully unaware before :D
Thanks Khushboo :)
DeleteCongrats to you for winning the Immune India Contest :)
Always great to be the harbinger of great news :)
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing very useful.
Thanks for reading :)
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